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I used to do the door knob thing to my CBT T. I tell him something important right when session was almost up. He look at me quizzical and say "We can't get into this right now. We don't have the time." Da T that is why I said it. It is a test to see if he cared enough to bring it up next session. I used it as an manipulative thing. I know.....bad Moxie.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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