We women, have engraved into our being that whatever we have we share. We don't think about ourselves, we take care of our families and we share.

Men on the other hand, don't have as difficult a time with the idea of doing only for themselves. (IMO)

I see nothing wrong with your hubby treating himself to something he wants, since he is putting in the time and effort to the job. And I would definitely take his suggestion for you to work towards something strictly for you! He's right, you should treat yourself.....leave that old feeling of having to share at home and hit the stores!

Hugssssss
J