Hi tiodlliwi,

What about this is making you uncomfortable? Are you afraid of getting sucked into the "he said/she said" issues?

I have friends that are now separated after many years of marriage. They both come to me and talk to me about their side of the story. I do not go back to the other one and play the game of "he said/she said". I do not judge them for what they are going through. I only lend an ear and a shoulder because I love them both very much. I refuse to take sides and I told them both that.

Since they are only in the beginning stages of divorce there are many ways in which the situation could go. They may decide in a month to give it another try, they may hit the "anger" stage and things can get really messy, they may always stay friendly and work through their divorce easily.

Why not hang on and see how this all plays out before getting too worried or anxious over it

Hugssss
J