hey crazygirl, I think you should have serious talk about feelings to each other.. he seems to be something more for you than just a friend, so I think you can't 'have the cake and eat it too' - staying only as "friends with somewhat benefits" you will have to accept that he can have other girl friends like this.. I know it from my own experience.. sometimes it's better to let go this kind of relationship, because if he doesn't feel something more for you he will be hurting you, maybe not for purpose but still...