Thin or not, white gold has a value & personally I would sell it & take the money & do something JUST FOR YOURSELF. It will add another layer of distance & significance of ENDING to your life....& it won't be sitting in your drawer haunting you as your ex seems to be doing.

Make all the breaks & for me, I had to set up the rule that there was absolutely NO communication that wasn't in writing. Email or letter. At the beginning allowed texts but at the end, I changed my phone number because he had given it out to creditors & then when he didn't pay they were calling me....2100 miles away...I had no idea what in the world he was doing & he never communicated in the first place.

I love living so far away....I needed that break for many other reasons but it really helped except for getting MY things from the house....7 years later & I still have cloths & things in what was OUR house....no money to go back & no money to move anything.....

But making the break & drawing the line is the most important part in divorce...if you don't have any kids, you don't have to worry about EVER having to talk to him again or have anything to do with him....so the best is to END it permanently.