Can you find another doctor? This is not okay. Not one bit. Even my pdoc did not press for information about trauma. She asked, but when I said I would not talk about it, she respected that. And my primary care doctor only needs to know about the bipolar. She is aware that there's more going on, based on something I said about a certain procedure, but she did not ask. This guy does not sound as though he's able to back off. And you don't need more stress. I am really sorry this has happened to you.