We just had a long talk. He kept maintaining that he can't help it that he has a low libido. And I said that he was basically not saying anything to make me feel better, just assuring me that this is how it is and always will be. He seemed really depressed and I feel badly because I feel depressed about all this as well. I am tired of being made to feel that I am some kind of unnatural monster because I want to make love with my own husband and not a vibrator.