I don't know, and certainly do not have a degree to say anything, but I'll just guess for now. I think you have too much on your plate. I think you need a psychiatrist or psychologist to talk to concerning everything. That's a start. Perhaps put your parents on the back burner because they may never change their minds about anything. My mom was bull headed and trying to change her mind just would not work. Some parents just can not believe there is anything wrong with their child, perhaps even if they have the same mental illness. Mental illness still carries a stigma. Much more 25 years ago. Your marriage needs outside guidance. Are you on medication, is it working, and do you stick with it. Good luck on it all.