Thread: Trust issues
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Old Nov 02, 2014, 02:13 AM
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Originally Posted by winterglen View Post

Like today, I was trying to move a chair in the classroom through this tight spot. The chair leg hit the wall and I fell on top of someone else.

She said it was okay, because she's a nice person who will be nice even to drips like me.
No, she did not say it was okay because she is a nice person.

She said it was OK on autopilot - anybody unless there is a major lack of social skills on the part of that person would have said that it was OK.

Had the tables been turned and she ended up falling on top of you, you would have told her that it was OK. Right?

PS Also very much agree with Kaliope's suggestion.
Thanks for this!
winterglen