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Originally Posted by BobbyDavis
If you were close friends with two people that were married and you accidentally found out one was having an affair would you a) tell the other person about it b) confront the cheater and tell them you know about what they are doing and think it is wrong or c) try to stay out of it and hope the cheating partner eventually comes clean themselves?
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I don't see the choice D - just stay out and not have any attachment to the outcome.
Marriage counselors get paid for a reason - their work is hard, frustrating, and at times thankless. Unless I were explicitly hired by both parties or at least asked by both parties to intervene, I would stay out.