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Originally Posted by JustBryan12345
I know it sounds bitter. But it makes me envy what they have. I just want advice on how to grow my Self-Esteem. How to I be more talkative. What is the advances on how to build a relationship with a woman starting from the bottom(Meaning if I think she is cute where do I build from there?) I feel like my self esteem is holding me back...a lot anyone can help?
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Your goal is not appropriate for you yet - you need to reach achievable, smaller goals first. Start getting in the habit of a light chit-chat with everyone, men and women, in the normal course of your day. Say, if you - that is a corny example, but just for the sake of expediency - get coffee from a coffee shop, smile, joke, thank the barista (she or he). Eventually you will feel more secure in your small talk skills and can proceed to the goal above (in bold).
The more skilled you get at GENERAL chit-chat, the less creepy and the more casual and fluid you would eventually appear to the women who would strike your fancy.
One way to think about is via the concept of self esteem.
Another, and possibly simpler way to think about is just as improvement in small talk skills.