I enjoy spending time with my husband, we have many things in common. But the last two years I have found myself less and less sexually attracted to him. I don't enjoy sex with him when I used to love it and I don't really feel romantically connected to him.


I'm also feeling very unattractive lately, I gained 40 pounds in the last year and that is taking its toll on my self image.


When I'm feeling down or just apathetic, my husband is not very supportive or kind, instead he nags me about things I haven't done or takes it personally if I don't want to talk.


I'm starting to get exhausted about always trying to avoid a fight. Maybe marriage wasn't such a good idea...