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Originally Posted by mommaxo
why are you with him then, if he sucks in bed, and doesn't make you feel good about yourself? Sounds like your just wasting your time in a relationship where's there's absouetly no lust. There's a lot more to relationships than just loving each other, and putting up with each other. Find someone who still makes you feel sexy, even after putting on some weight, or feeling a bit down on yourself.
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I'm with him for lots of reasons. He does take care of me, and I know that he does love me even though he rarely says it. He shows his love through actions. Honestly, I don't even like sex that much. I'm almost asexual. It just has very little appeal to me. I like using a vibrator instead of having actual sex. It's so much better IMHO. I've kissed a few guys before and felt nothing. I had a loser ex before I got married and he didn't do much for me either.
Sex is not a big deal to me. It's demeaning and it's just an unpleasant chore to me. I have issues with my looks and my body too. I don't want to be alone. When you have issues like I do, your options are extremely limited. I'm content with him. That's the best that I can ever hope for.