It has been a couple of months now, and I know it is still fresh, but I need to get past this. I am losing my mind. My husband smokes, and tries to hide it, and I asked him if he smoked in the car. I knew he did, but he lied, and said no. This made me blow up. With everything else going on why not just tell the ****ing truth???? It is so stupid to lie at all why about something this small??Then of course this all boiled up, and made me freak out bring up his affair, and I left crying had to pull over in a vacant place, and just SCREAM! What can I do???