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Old Nov 03, 2014, 06:18 AM
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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster View Post
Oops... you have been in therapy for two years and you still believe that being overweight is caused solely by eating when you are not hungry? Or even primarily by it? I would disqualify your therapist if I were his or her licensing board.

But seriously - it might be that one of the reasons that your therapy has not been successful has nothing to do with your perceived failures or shortcomings. Maybe your therapist is simply not qualified to treat you, or anyone with an eating disorder for that matter.
I am not over weight nor do I think I am over weight. My Eating disorder as nothing to do with weight. I was just saying that if the tactics above worked and were the answer then no one would be over weight.
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