Hi purplepearl, really sorry it's been "one of those days" for you, and hope today is a little better??
And I completely go along with Rohag, it sounds like your husband could do with a little more understanding.
Sorry if you've already tried this, but maybe on a slightly better day (hopefully/if you have some??) you could sit him down and explain.........what it's really like for you, and that some days may be like that for no other particular reason than they are.
It's not that you're just not bothered, you're not interested, he's done something, something's happened that you aren't telling him about..........it's more than that. And perhaps you could tell him what you'd like him to do if it's "one of those days", what might help a bit, or at least not make it worse for you...............
Hopefully have him understanding a bit more, hey??

Alison