Your going to scare this guy off if you keep obsessing over when will he text you back .
If you never had closure from your ex b/f who cheated on you then your not ready to
date .
Your going to end up being to controlling , and that scares people away , who want's someone breathing down there neck .

So my advice is ..
First get closure
then less texting ( it is a trigger to become obsessed )
Trust your new b/f ( he's not your ex so he should not be punish )
Work on your Self-esteem ( Confident will make you shine )