Thank you both for taking the time to read my post and respond. It feels nice to know someone cares enough to offer advice.


We haven't been married very long - 10 months. We go to couples counseling periodically. We were doing well with communication and spending time with one another but we still haven't figured out how to rekindle the sexual relationship. In addition to not feeling very attracted to my husband, he never initiates sex, so it's up to me to do so.


Yesterday was a rough day for me mentally, just felt really apathetic and out of it all day and instead of being empathetic and kind, he was taking my disengagement personally and then proceeded to nag me about little things which only made my mood worse.