So after of a year of what i thought was a healthy loving relationship turned out to be a truckload of problems, so my now ex girlfriend and i were happy for a long time but towards the end she started to get moody and lost interest to see me at all, this messed things up a lot.

After not seeing her for weeks at a time we drifted apart and arguments always sprang up about not having time etc, i could go on about this for ages but i want to get to the real problem.

Now my ex has been messaging my friends saying that im being a **** and a horrible guy and making me look like the break up was my fault, i still loved the girl and still have strong feelings towards her but shes hates me now, we've been on breaks before but the last was different she didnt even give me a chance to fix things between us, but now my friends have taken her side and no longer want to talk to me, this is very awkward because some of my friends like me and others don't im just really sad and confused and angry and it making me take my anger out on my friends which causes more problems, i go to school with all these guys and all my ex's friends and friends of my friends so this causes alot of tension and stress i don't know the next move to make and how to get my best friends back? any help would be appreciated

Sincerely, Mahew