I can relate to that, it becomes one of my hangups when around others but not all the people mainly new people, I just keep fighting that feeling, it is very difficult at times but I do finally manage to overcome it, I just regret all the possible friendships I could of had if I would have had a stronger handle on this hangup as I do now. It takes working on but you can get through this obstacle. Secret. . . we aren't stupid, there's some encouraging words for you, and a big smile
Take care now,
"darkeyes"

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON