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Originally Posted by ThingWithFeathers
Yes, that makes sense to me. I suppose what I have is unconditional positive regard AND an inability to be angry with her. I have trouble showing, and feeling, anger anyway, so this might explain some of it.
I have never had one moment of negative feeling toward her, just love.
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Well you do sound like you really love your T and care for this person. Your T is lucky to have you as a client.
As far as anger, I'm in the same boat, I have trouble expressing it, either don't at all or when I do on rare occasion, I feel like a bad person or like my anger is so out of control it's going to damage everybody, me, the target person, the relationship, everything. But it's good to try it out once in a while with a T, when you do feel angry. Positive result reinforces that you can be angry and it's just fine, nothing awful will happen. That's what I try to do.