^^^Well, I don't think it's fair to judge adults who have to ask this question tbh. I had wondered about it for years, and convinced myself it was just an embarrassing thing that had happened. I am an adult who had cybersex with a much older American man when I was 16/17 Perhaps it sounds ignorant that I didn't know it was illegal on his part, but I find that in general, people downplay all abuse they experience. I think that's how we survive. I have to ask this question or defend it because i want the answer to be 'no it's ok', because it happened to me and I prefer to think I'm overreacting than to think that it was messed up and damaging. I think that's understandable. xx