You know...I started writing a major rebutle to your agressive post. I started thinking, " We need less members like you who respond with a nasty, I am better than you response, insulting, instigating, trying to feel superior." (I have to remember you are mentally ill). By rebutting I would be just like you and then I remeber something I keep on my profile wall and decided to honor it.
It is not necessary for you to report everyone's mistakes to them, much less to give them corrections.
It can be difficult, when you think you know a better way
to say something, to keep that to yourself. But try.
Unless someone's life or safety depends on it, do try.
You would not welcome someone else pointing out
your own misstep, or less-than-totally-efficient approach
to something. Why point it out to them? Do you see it as
your duty in life to make sure that all goes the way you
think it 'should'?
That would be an inaccurate assessment of your soul's
grander purpose.
Neale Donald Walsch
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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