Thatīs just awkward the situation you described. If a T keeps you in therapy for as long as ten months and the just leaves you, I would say that person isnīt at all suitable as a T. Did you get any kind of explanation at all? Itīs just weird that a T, a person whoīs supposed to be proffessional canīt even answer a simple letter.
I already got a brief explanation but to me it just appears as a subterfuge, that she realised in some way she hadnīt been honest about her actions and that made me get a somewhat false image of her and of the therapeutic relationship and her possibility to actually help me solving my problems.
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Originally Posted by CrimsonBlues
Hi PaulaS-
I am so sorry this happened to you. I had something similar happen to me, a therapist I had been meeting with for about ten months suddenly decided to end the therapy- without any warning at all, when things seemed to be going well. We had just started to work through issues related to PTSD, which apparently was one of her specialties, and with the trust issues I had already her actions devastated me. I have not been able to return to therapy since this happened. I wish I had some great advice to offer you about how to work through it but all I can tell you is that I am still trying to figure out how to do this myself. I can also tell you that you're not alone and I feel for what you are experiencing.
I did try a few times to get answers from her but she wouldn't respond. I don't know if you have any interest in doing so but have you contacted the therapist who did this to let them know about the angst and confusion their action has caused and asked for an explanation? Maybe write a letter? I think it's an excellent idea to do what you're doing here, talking about your thoughts and feelings in this forum-a good place to start to heal from this situation.
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