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Originally Posted by Shy Introvert
I think that it'd be best to take your time to get to know him before assuming anything. It's possible that he was relieved to see someone that he knows there. If he does like you in a romantic way, then he'll probably act differently around you than any of the other women at work. He won't mention a g.f or any dates probably if he is serious about eventually asking you out IMHO.
Just be friendly for now and wait and see what happens. Maybe you can even ask questions to get him to open up, compliment him (guys love that), and maybe even smile and flirt with him once you get to know him after a couple of months. I think that coming on strong in any way might scare a shy guy off. If he is really shy, then maybe you should invite him out sometime and see what happens.
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Yes, I agree that I need to take my time to get to know him. I know shy people are more "fragile" at first do to past happenings that I have no idea about. That's why I said approach him bit by bit to get to know him. Which after a couple months maybe ask him to hangout depending how I feel too.
I also want to mention that I have no thoughts of a romantic approach. I myself want a relationship to go steady, a friendship at first before going any further. I have no clue if this guy and I have common interests even, EXCEPT for food.
he. Your husband and wife should be your best friend before and after getting married.