We went to mediation a few months after we divorced. Came to an agreement, the lawyer wrote it up to make it official and then my ex did what he wanted to do anyway. So it was a huge waste of time and money on my part to go to mediation. He has it in his head a certain way and that's the only way it's going to be.

Thanks for the input, just needed to vent and hear if I was being totally unreasonable.