LOL....I have to laugh sort of at myself.....We had just yellow gold bands when we got married because I told him if I couldn't see the diamond I didn't want one........ok....so later on......I decide since we were both engineers it was time to buy a diamond that I could see so I found this pretty ring that has a marquis & pave diamonds around the side......I bought it with my own earnings so I just used it as my wedding ring...lol.

Part of me says sell it, you can use the money....& part of me says...I like the ring I bought for myself for my wedding ring.....in many ways, I'm glad the ring doesn't have the meaning that a real wedding ring would have had.

Then there are the times when I would rather leave a ring on so that I don't get bothered by anyone.....there is a benefit to that also.