I love my T. I could never hate her in anyway.
But I do get angry, mad, hurt, or frustrated with her. She has gotten frustrated with me too

It's healthy. But it took me a long long time to be okay with anger...way before current T. I used to hate anger. Now, I just recognize that anger is not only an acceptable feeling, but it can also be useful it used in the right way.
So even if I'm angry or hurt with someone (my T, family, people here on PC

), it doesn't mean I don't care. In fact, it shows that I do care.
And I will ALWAYS love my T