Good for you...

Honestly - I don't know if the absorbtion thing is fact - my ex wife had some books lying around that I've read - personal accounts which pointed to this...Me ex seem to believe this to be true. When she did B/P she tended to gain weight.

Please, please stay away from the idea of purging - it will become an obsession that you won't be able to stop...

See a nutritionalist who can help plan out something that works for you - including it a desert - remember you can always have another desert the next day. Make sure the N knows what foods trigger you to over eat.