LOL, I wish. This is a long phase if so. I could deal with a beard and flannel and him embracing his feminine side. No problem. That would be cute and possibly attractive. The thing is, he's basically turned into Jabba the Hutt. No effort into anything he does at home (can't speak for his at-work performance), no self-control when it comes to food, no self-discipline, and no respect for himself from what I see. He lays on the bed or sofa like Jabba and asks myself or the kids to bring him food and drinks and he just watches TV or plays that candy phone game or phone poker until he goes to sleep. 5-6 hr long naps when he gets home, then he wakes up around 10:30 pm, takes his meds, eats again, watches maybe an hour more of TV and goes to bed for the night. Like literally, wtf is wrong with this dude? He has an easy desk job and he occasionally dozes off there too. One of his co-workers that I am also very friendly with has expressed concerns about him to me as well about errors on reports, and the random sleeping at work. He sleeps more than he does anything else, so maybe the flannel needs to be flannel pajamas.