How do you all handle mother's day? i am dreading it. i have to act like nothing is wrong and that everything is okay when really i am p*ssed. Next month i have to deal with her birthday. My therapist is focused on my stepfather and all the stuff he has done to me, but i am more p*ssed at my mom because she was suppose to protect me and believe me not him. He was just her husband. He was nothing to me. So how do you cope. I have to go see her and pretend everything is alright. she doesnt know i am in therapy and she doesnt know i have DID.