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Originally Posted by Utterly
Mentioning suicidal intent is seen by a therapist as an aggressive move (even though it might be just honesty.) The therapist distancing you is pretty common. Just understand that if he perceives it as a gesture that's trying to manipulate him then the appropriate response is to not engage in that game.
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This is not typical across all therapists. This is often true in DBT therapy, but is NOT reflective of all types of therapy. My God. You admit you're struggling and the response by the therapist is to distance themselves? Tell me how that is helpful?? Even for borderline patients, I think there is a better way to handle the situation.
Where is the incentive to be honest if this were to happen? Therapy should be a safe place to share ANYTHING.