i had a similar situation that scarlet had. when i first started working with my T he wanted me to go to this intensive inpatient trauma program in a different state. i was for sure he was rejecting me and trying to tell me that im too messed up for him to help me. but i know now he was only trying to help me get thru my constant crises. and it wasnt even like he was leaving me bc i could have come back to see him when after i went thru that program. but yeah in the end i decided not to do it