Oh geez. Oh gosh. Oh my. Oh how I am trying to not say anything awfully inappropriate here, but I'm sort of choking on my dinner reading this... just wow.

Wow wow wow.

Kiya - I hope you were able to break it off with her tonight! Please tell us that you were!

If not, I hope you seriously consider some of the ideas here... like cancelling an appointment, tell her you'll be out of town (visiting family, taking a vacation, business, volunteering, chasing after a new love, whatever!) and not sure when you'll be returning.

Then either screen your calls and don't pick up when she calls, or change your number! She sounds absolutely nuts... really not a good match.

The worst thing is, I hate to think you wasting your money with this person I don't know if it helps, sometimes when I have difficulty with the emotional side of something, I'll try to focus on something more concrete like finances... and say to myself, "well, it's difficult, but I really am not getting a good value for my money here, so I must end it." Something like that.

*good luck*