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Old Nov 04, 2014, 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted by vital View Post
How do you know any of that?

Also, seriously, I think that this is a real trap that many people fall into. In my experience, it makes no difference at all why you have a particular set of dysfunctional thoughts and feelings or what they are or where they come from. Learning what the anger is all about does not help you to get better.
I think it depends upon a person. It is individual - there is no rule to it. I personally prefer to know the root cause.