You know what's super okay? Seeing a therapist and a life coach at the same time!!! . Why not go for that?? Even if you think this life coach is harming you, you may still find it hard to leave if you don't have other people who connect with you or understand or WANT to understand you and your life. I say add some more people into your circle. Start there if that's where you need to start and just see what happens. It's not betrayal to see a life coach and a therapist at the same time... It is getting two separate services! And if you are worried about finances, I'd still call around and explain your situation to see what happens. Go forth with curiosity.