Thank you all for your thoughts. I think you're onto something with the idea of it being too overwhelming and him being too unsure about the future. And that he feels like he's disappointing me or something. It doesn't matter how much I reassure him otherwise, he needs to do this his own way. Thankfully he got in touch with me briefly last night to simply apologize for being out of touch and to tell me he just needs some space. That the therapy, coping with everything, and job hunting is all he can emotionally handle right now. Said he can't be reassuring to me right now about anything until he feels more self-assured. Said he's better than when I last saw him in August but is just not where he feels he wants to be. So I guess I wait. Will he ever be there? Who knows. I guess time will tell.