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Old Nov 04, 2014, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by CrazyGirl6371 View Post
I only attach myself to certain people, and I don't know why I've become so attached to him, other than the fact that we spend so much time together. I think there's something about him I'm just drawn to, for whatever reason. I'm trying to tell myself it's okay that he doesn't want a relationship. At least, I have his friendship, and it's a very close friendship. Maybe, in time, it will develop into more, once he realizes that I've been here all along...
I think you would do yourself a great disservice to hope that one day he will "realize" you have always been there, waiting ..... Why? Because your still going to be too invested in wanting him that you will most likely not pay attention to any good men that are looking for a real relationship.

You really should take a big step back and allow your longing for him to ease up so your able to be more logical about this situation.

Take care
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