So the book she suggested is called Surviving a Borderline Parent by Kimberlee Roth. I'm kinda interested. I always thought something was wrong with them. We'll see if I can get a copy. I think I'm feeling placebo effect from seeing the new therapist. She only works Tuesday Wednesday and Friday, but I'll take it because it was easy to talk to her. Next week starts a new work schedule which might help some things. I get to sleep in a bit. I'll be going in 1 1/2 hours later.