I agree with doyoutrustme. I had a misunderstanding once with my last T (I read more into his behavior in a session than what was really there.) During the next session I was able to verbalize why I was so upset with him and how it had made me feel along with thinking he only put up with me because I paid him for his time. This gave him the opportunity to tell me that he really enjoyed working with me and that it was most definitely not just about the money. It was worth the discomfort of bringing it up to be able to hear him say that he genuinely liked me.
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