Without explaining the whole things....
I am in a relationship, 3 years in December. There are a few things i am not happy with (here's a part of a previous convo) just replace 'you' with 'him'.
1. I can't take the fact that i can't get you to go to the pumpkin thing. Amd you just blow me off 'let me know' but you never will. (I tried planning to go to the Great pumpkin Blaze, near where i live. He said hed let me know what day is good for him- i knew he wouldn't and the show ends in acouole weeks)
2. I can't take when we are talking about something like this you just shut down. In general when its something you don't like you act like its not happening.
3.i can't take how it seems like you dont care. Always talking about you, never care or inquire about my ****.
4. I can't take how apparently i am expecting more from the person i am with.
5.i can't take how life is just work and home. Cant even do **** together. I can't take how lifeless my life is.

Do i drop this relationship? Or ask him for a break and for him to really look into this relationship. Hopefully hell see how serious i am and try to help out.

OR do i deal with it and deal with this bitterness because i may never find another relationship or even one worse. I am scared to leave because of that. I think he does love me but i expect more from the little things.
Lol this is a great way to enjoy my birthday right. I am more depressed than usual because it's my birthday. They just arent has fun as they used to be.