Hi Snuggles, sorry things aren't going well for you right now
But good work tracking the item in the post!! At least you've narrowed it down a bit, so really hoping they can find it or it turns up. It's got to be somewhere, right?
And as for family matters..........it sounds like you do need a break, but if you could at least find some time where you could try to do something/s for you to try and "switch off" from the stress/tension??? Some of it might still be there afterwards.............but just a breather from it, hey???
And if it makes any difference even turn the sound off on the phone and make some "you" time "away form it".
But if there's any of it we might be able to help with.............

Alison