I would love to say I could be non-judgmental about SI scars, but I would not start a therapeutic relationship with someone with visible SI scars. For me, because I associate SI with a borderline personality disorder diagnosis, and because I have had such bad experiences throughout my life with people with that diagnosis, I would have a real problem with the scars. I am not sure I could get past the fear and distrust I would bring to the relationship. I know that I have had good relationships also with people with that diagnosis, and I know not all SI is related to BPD, and not all folks with BPD self injure, but that is just the gut reaction I would have.