Isnt that a lack of trust issue? A lack of ego? Its like you are claiming or borrowing something from them at the wrong time or that youre not supposed to take and trying to say its yours, but its not. Its not about you. They just happen to busy with something else. They werent even thinking of you.

Sorry - i keep picturing my mother flying off the handle about some supposed slight from a relative, and id be like, are you sure this was directed at you?