Scares can trigger people but honestly if my T had a self harm history I'd feel better. It'd help me know that s/he would be less likely to over react. When I SI. My son's T was honest that she had a self harm history (all she said is she has that in her past too.) when we brought up our concerns about him. She also told our son she had BP when helping him understand our mood swings.

My son said it would reassure him that T's talking from experience.

My husband wouldn't mind but would as If T was okay now.