I am a very tolerant person, generally. I want to be counseled by people who have been in the trenches, not those who live a rosy hunky-dory life with no pain. (Denial anyone?)

I don't SI so all my scars are on the inside. Doesn't make them any less painful, just a little harder to see. My T can see them, even the ones I try to keep hidden.

I would absolutely see a T with visible scars.