Thing is though, you are trying. If you can find it in you, to stop before that ultrasound, baby's lungs should be fine. Some women who have smoked, find themselves physically unable, to smoke during because maternal instinct kicks in and mentally somehow, someway, nature kicks in.

It's good your mom is taking an interest in her little' gran'-peanut. That's a positive bonding experience, for sure.

Maybe just being around all these other women will help solidify what values you want to bring to your lil one.

How long before court? Are there other options than jail time? Such as counseling, probation or community service?