So, my abusive ex keeps following me around office. I am trying for new jobs but still, nothing has worked out for me yet. I returned his gifts. Now he wants his cards back and two minutes of my time. I threw his cards ages ago and he knows it. Now he threatens to post our pictures and some video he took (I am unaware of this) to whomsoever I end up marrying. He says that he will follow me till he ruins my married life "because I deserve this". Now I really can't go to my parents with this issue - 100% I can't. I don't know what to do. I feel so utterly helpless. I am so terrified that he will ruin my whole life, and I feel like killing myself.