Yes just a few weeks ago I went to another T (one who knows mine well) and told her issues I was having and wondering whether my T would really be able to help me through my transference. She pointed out how much my T and I think alike, that I shouldn't try to rush through therapy to be done and that I shouldn't always go in with an agenda. She also said she would never tell my T I saw her and even discussed what she would say if we all saw each other which could happen in our small town. I haven't told my T but she knows that I wanted to quit and thought about switching T's.