I guess I don't understand the reasoning behind getting married in the first place, knowing that he would be leaving in two weeks, and it will take two years or more for your immigration paperwork. In the meantime he continues to be manipulative and controlling of you from a distance....and it will only get worse with time.

As others have posted, I'm not familiar with your customs, but this is not a marriage in any practical sense. I don't know what your options are, but you deserve to live your life...to grow and develop to your full potential. Your present circumstances make that impossible.